even though i plan two major events for work each year, i don’t like to plan…i’m more of a fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants kind of girl…that’s what you’ll find here…me…just wingin’ it…

5 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. John Revolta
    Jan 03, 2012 @ 09:57:19

    Frist!!!1!!1!11! Mwahahahahahaaaaa………………………..

    Stayin’ warm up there, gal?

    P.S. Cool tree, also.


    • bbkf47
      Jan 03, 2012 @ 14:48:17

      just barely…verr, verr chilly here today, but unseasonably warm by the end of the week…the tree did turn out pretty cool…people tell us they think it’s cool, but then i think they go home and go, ‘geeze…what a couple of weirdos!’


  2. Becky
    Apr 07, 2013 @ 15:34:10

    Easy to join in with a group of people who gang up, bully and humiliate a lone woman, isn’t it – especially when they already come from the much maligned, marginalized trans minority, isn’t it? Had fun on Sadly No! approved by affirmation and permission of the in-crowd, did you? Oh well, at least through being designated an ‘outsider’ I get to know what people are really like and their true worth.


  3. Becky
    Apr 10, 2013 @ 21:08:21

    Oh, btw…and with all due respect, since you’ve informed us on the Sadly No! thread that you are a ‘special needs agitator/advocate’ then, personally, I find it disappointing that you didn’t challenge ‘Dark Avenger’ for posting a link, later on that very same thread, to a photo ignorantly and profoundly offensively mocking and exploiting people with Down Syndrome. There is actually a psychological term for the phenomenon of an individual who fails to stick to their principles, basic decency and own inner sense of morality whilst participating as a member of a group (often for fear of losing the approval of said group): it’s called diffusion of responsibility.


    • bbkf
      Apr 13, 2013 @ 03:24:26

      or, here’s a thought, becky…i didn’t see any photos ‘dark avenger’ linked to…i hardly ever click on links because i’ve gotten viruses before…i clicked on the links you provided because if you were being attacked i would have stood up for you but instead i found that you went in with your guns blazing and began the ‘attacking’ first. you lost your credibility with me right there…and then you came here and cast your aspersions…here’s the deal: i stick to my principles, basic dignity and my own inner sense of morality every day…i’ve called out every instance of ‘retard’ or even words that end with ‘tard’ that i’ve seen on the site. i do it on facebook. i do it at school. i do it at work. i do it wherever i am and wherever i see it… in fact, wednesday evening i had to lay the smack down on my pharmacist for using the phrase ‘fucking retarded’…i’ve had to do it within my own family…anyone who knows me, knows i don’t tolerate any of it…there’s the key, becky…anyone who knows me…i don’t know any of the people on sadly, no! and they don’t know me…i don’t care what they think…if i completely avoided any place or person who uses language and terms that offend me i would never go anywhere. if i would have seen the picture you said he linked to, i would have called him out on it…and i’m not about to go searching through a thread to find it and scold him retroactively…besides, i’m sure you were all over him or her…as i told you before, i’ve learned that there’s a way to go about fighting that kind of behavior…and you coming here and telling me that i am full of shit isn’t one of the ways to do it…


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